Door without walls ?

Yes that is what we do  everyday. We keep securing  our  doors with nice and strong locks. But where are walls ? We live in  a place where there is big  door which is locked by a strong lock but there are no walls around. We are afraid of uncertainty and hence we keep locking our doors. Whatever we do but life cannot be secure. Life means flying in unknown territory. Life is always uncertain. Only dead can be secure and certain. Security can give us more years to life but accepting insecurity will give  us more life to our years.

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We go to work everyday even if we hate our job. We keep moving around with same friends even if relations are already dead. Why? Because we do not want to take risk in finding new friends.It is not future we are afraid of, it is possible worst outcome we are afraid of.  We stay with our fear of not speaking in public. we stop ourselves from writing, painting, dancing or singing. Why? Because we fear of losing our worth in someone’s eyes. We pretend to be happy so that we do  not  have to  take risk of losing our image.

Let us just examine if we are really  secure and risk free? In spite of taking so much of care are we really secure? No, we are not. What is under our control anyway ? Is our Job/business secure? Is there anyway to have secure relationship forever? Is there anyway to keep our image intact in  eyes of world around us? Nothing is risk free. Everything is uncertain.

So let us accept uncertainty as way of life. Instead of running away from uncertainty let us embrace it and make it part of our life. Most of our anxiety will go away if we know that nothing is certain  in life. We will live our life instead of waiting to live one day when things will be secure and certain.  Embrace change in our life. Develop confidence on yourself. When you think through any scenario you feel is very fearful, most of the time it is not as bad as you think. Develop skill sets so that it can be helpful in your bad time.

I insist you to go for change, get out of your comfort zone and live your life at fullest.

 Feel the fear and do it anyway !!

You are not only unique but special too !

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We are strange people, We want to become like someone else. We want to look like somebody else. Fat people want to be thin. Thin people want to put on weight. Those whose complexion is dark wishes to be fair. Those who look fair wants some dark complexion.  Short people are jealous of tall. Tall are cursing there tallness.

You know that you are unique. No one who has lived or is to come, ever has  your combination of abilities, talents,appearance, friends, burdens, sorrows, opportunities like you have. No two person’s finger prints are same. No one can grow hair like you do. You are UNIQUE. You are not like anyone else in the past present and future. You are not meant to be like someone else. God is so creative that He has made everyone unique.

Enjoy your uniqueness. You do not have to pretend in order to seem more like someone else. You are special. Comparison is a sin. As soon as you compare yourself with someone else you will feel sense of lack. It is obvious. You are unique hence you are special. Embrace your uniqueness. You can work towards health. You can be fat and healthy. You can be thin and healthy. You can be dark and healthy. You can be shy and healthy. so our goal is health and not to be  someone else. Health can be physical, mental or spiritual.

Someone is good at language, someone is very good singer. One can think clearly. Other can write well . Someone can feel more. Someone has better understanding. One is poetic other is more  logical. Someone is a simple being.Other is a manager. The whole world is unique. Each individual is blessed with uniqueness. When you believe and feel special you will feel happy.

Feel pride in being yourself. You are already perfect. Masterpiece. You are  special and treat your self with love. Be your best friend. If you think that you are not good at anything its because you have not  observed yourself closely yet. Don’t beat yourself up. Your uniqueness is special. You are SPECIAL !

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