June 2015 – Play

So what if there are storms

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So what if there are storms, it is raining and weather is bad

So what if roads are rough, I am afraid and goal is far away

I am on the way, will keep going, till I reach

So what if nobody approves it, puts all sorts of hurdles

So what if it seems very far, no one can see it but me

I know I am aware I can see it, people say I cannot move mountains

I am on the way, will keep moving, till I get at the top

You are not only unique but special too !

We are strange people, We want to become like someone else. We want to look like somebody else. Fat people want to be thin. Thin people want to put on weight. Those whose complexion is dark wishes to be fair. Those who look fair wants some dark complexion. Short people are jealous of tall. Tall are cursing there tallness.

You know that you are unique. No one who has lived or is to come, ever has your combination of abilities, talents,appearance, friends, burdens, sorrows, opportunities like you have. No two person’s finger prints are same. No one can grow hair like you do. You are UNIQUE. You are not like anyone else in the past present and future. You are not meant to be like someone else. God is so creative that He has made everyone unique.

Enjoy your uniqueness. You do not have to pretend in order to seem more like someone else. You are special. Comparison is a sin. As soon as you compare yourself with someone else you will feel sense of lack. It is obvious. You are unique hence you are special. Embrace your uniqueness. You can work towards health. You can be fat and healthy. You can be thin and healthy. You can be dark and healthy. You can be shy and healthy. so our goal is health and not to be someone else. Health can be physical, mental or spiritual.

Someone is good at language, someone is very good singer. One can think clearly. Other can write well . Someone can feel more. Someone has better understanding. One is poetic other is more logical. Someone is a simple being.Other is a manager. The whole world is unique. Each individual is blessed with uniqueness. When you believe and feel special you will feel happy.

Feel pride in being yourself. You are already perfect. Masterpiece. You are special and treat your self with love. Be your best friend. If you think that you are not good at anything its because you have not observed yourself closely yet. Don’t beat yourself up. Your uniqueness is special. You are SPECIAL !

Do I know you ? – Relationship paradox

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Imagine a day when you are in a cold war with your partner. It will seem that she (I am referring here only “she” but it applies to both he and she) is not speaking to you properly, whatever she does seems just wrong and against you. As if whole land beneath you is taken away. You feel shattered and unhappy. We all go through such moments in our lives with variable depths. Let me tell you today how I have minimized such instances from my life.

The paradox is that more I know her I realize that I don’t know her: We are changing every moment. We are different and new than we were a moment ago. We constantly learn, unlearn, predict, assume, define, verify, analyse and do all sorts of things which makes us different every moment. When do we get hurt ? When we expect that our partner should behave in certain way but in reality she has behaved in different way. So we feel that she has changed or she does not love me anymore or she should have not said things in certain way. It is because we had expected that she should have behaved in the ways she behaved previously. She has literally evolved from her “last time”. As a matter of fact she is new and different now. If I would have accepted that she also changes moment to moment I would have not expected anything from her exactly like last time and clash could have been avoided.

In any relationship, in the beginning there is always a charm and sweetness. It is because she was an uncharted territory. Literally. As time passes by, boredom enters. That is the time we refer to as honeymoon is over. It is as if we are going to the same place over and over. This happens because we take our partner for granted. We think that we know her. This is absolutely untrue. It is almost impossible to know her.We ourselves do not know who we are. We are even surprised by our own behavior many times. How on this earth it is possible to know her ? images

As soon as we understand this fact that we do not know her, she is an uncharted territory, curiosity will arise. Curiosity will bring interest and there will be no boredom anymore. Everyday will be a new romantic day !